SOUL MATES 101

Being someone’s soul mate seems to me is the ultimate achievement in a relationship. It may not necessarily even be your spouse. It could be your best friend. It could also be someone you have never met, or may met once a long time ago. And perhaps that one time would be enough to convince you that he or she should become your soul mate.
What is a soul mate, anyway? This is a dictionary definition: “somebody with whom somebody else naturally shares deep feelings and attitudes”….sounds wonderful, doesn’t it?
I think many people search their whole lives looking for their soul mate, especially one they can be attracted to physically, and of course sharing deep feelings and attitudes.
How do you know you have found your soul mate? To compartmentalize a relationship, you will want a physical attraction, the same or similar mental capacity, and that spiritual connection that transforms the couple into being soul mates.
Danny Benson, our hero in OVERLAND, thought he had his soul mate in Heather. She was the reason he went on this long adventure in the first place. But he was so consumed by his medical school studies he didn’t even realize what was a soul mate anymore. It was a matter of going through the motions with Heather.
When he met, what I call the “secret” of OVERLAND, Danny’s whole world changed. Between the two, Heather and “the secret”, the clarity of what a soul mate is, is defined.
Interestingly, on the feedback I have received from those that have read OVERLAND, not everybody falls in love with “the secret”. In fact, some people prefer Heather. Two very distinct women are characterized within OVERLAND. 
So the questions remain: how do you find such a person that can become your soul mate?
And, of the female audience out there, who will you identify with, Heather or “the secret”?
Both will appear in the sequel!
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